Everyone knows that mature women love men with money, but if you have it, and spend it on them in an attempt to win them over, they either don’t respect you, or they’re not very loyal and willing to leave you for the next guy with even more money, or cheat on you with a stud. So which is it? Do mature women want men with money, or don’t they? Perhaps we are asking the wrong question. What we need to be asking, is how does a guy with money use it to his advantage with mature women?
1. Intro
2. personal rule of mine
Let’s talk about a personal rule of mine: Never spend an excessive amount of money on a woman that you’re not in a serious relationship with. Why not? Because every other guy with money comes at them from that same angle of trying to buy a woman‘s love; and coming from that angle doesn’t differentiate you from them. If you’re dealing with a very beautiful woman, she will constantly have men trying to buy her love and offering her money for sex. Who knows, if you throw enough money her way, she might fuck you, but she will never be completely loyal to you.
3. lifestyle and habits
Secondly, it makes it look like you’re trying to impress them, and by attempting to impress, you have just admitted that your value is lower than hers; and when it comes to value, mature women tend to want to date up, not down. And this won’t work with mature women who already have their own source of income to support their lifestyle and habits. Mature women are intelligent enough to know that some men tend to hide behind their money when they have boring and dull personalities.
4. So how do you flaunt your cash without looking like a ...
So how do you flaunt your cash without looking like a try-hard? You flash your cash indirectly. What do I mean by this? You spend your money, but you spend it on yourself. For instance, you buy the expensive clothes and jewelry. She will see that you have money, but will appreciate that you aren’t trying to impress and you’re not trying to hide a boring and dull personality behind it.
5. the first scenario
The same goes for if you have a really nice apartment or bottle service that you bought for you and your friends. If she talks to you and you already have bottle service and offer her a drink, then you’re a guy with money that isn’t attempting to impress her. Very attractive. But if you’re a guy that meets her, and then buys her a drink or order bottle service when she has offered you no value, then you come off as a try-hard. Very unattractive. You’re still spending money on alcohol either way, but in the first scenario you are spending money in a non-reactive manner. In the second scenario, you are spending money in a reactive manner, responding to her beauty and/or the prospect of sex.
6. Final Thoughts
Understand the difference? This is what I mean by looking at the underlying psychology behind things. You all know that you should be non-reactive to mature women when they’re talking or when they’re attempting to insult you, but how many of you stop and try to see how the underlying psychology can apply to the other aspects of attraction? You gotta start using your heads.